ACCEPTING DEFEAT
IN 1831, an American citizen went into business. In 1832 his business failed, so he entered the field of politics, but without any success in that sphere. He reverted to business in 1834, and was again a failure.
In 1841, he had a nervous breakdown. Once recovered, he again entered the political arena, in the hope that his party would nominate him as a candidate for Congress. His hopes were dashed, however, when his name failed to appear in the list of candidates. The first chance he had to run for the Senate was in 1855, but he was defeated in the election. In 1858, he once stood in the congressional elections, and lost once again.
Once defeat is accepted, one is immediately in a position to start life’s journey afresh.
The name of this repeatedly unsuccessful person was Abraham Lincoln (1809–1865). So great were his services to his country that he is now known as the architect of modern America.
How did Abraham Lincoln manage to gain such a great reputation in American political and national history? How did he win his way to such a high position? According to Dr. Norman Vincent Peale, the secret behind his success was that “he knew how to accept defeat”.
This great secret of life is realism, and there is no form of realism greater than accepting defeat. To do so is to acknowledge the fact that, far from being ahead of others, one is behind them. In other words, it is to know where one stands in life.
Once defeat is accepted, one is immediately in a position to start life’s journey afresh, for such a journey can only commence from where one actually is; it cannot start from a point that one has not yet reached.